The Keys to a Successful Family Living
Peaceful family living is very much attainable if one knows how to respect individual family members, practice self-discipline and having an open line of communication. Don’t equate peaceful with the term silent for, these two things are entirely different especially when you talk about a successful living. By peaceful living it means living a family life that practice respect for individual differences, knowing when is the right time to interfere with personal issues of other members in the family and of course effective communication.
1. Respect for Every Family Member
Knowing when to acknowledge a certain achievement done by one of your family members is a good way of showing you are paying attention to them and you are affectionate too. One of the best ways to do this is respect their personal space, ideas and even their emotions. For example, if there is anybody in your family who is feeling sad then you must not ignore it. You must ask them why and just listen to their worries. You are not really oblige to fix it for them, just your mere presence and a shoulder to lean on would be enough.
Being polite is also another way to show respect. Those simple greetings like thanks and please is already a sign that you are acknowledging their help and presence. You can even ask them how did their day turn out and just listen to what they are sharing.
Showing respect to one’s ideas mean you have to constantly agree with what they are saying. People have their own thoughts on something and so it is vital to share yours too. There might be moments that you feel so happy with the line of thinking that your kids have but there would also be times that their thoughts are just not appropriate. Sometimes what they really need is guidance and the wisdom of adults who have longer experience whenever their ideas are not that really good after all experience is the best teacher. Children have a different perspective. Learning something doesn’t always mean you have to listen from a more knowledgeable person, people with the same age as yours sometimes listening to your kids is a good avenue for learning. It would be good as well if you are able to expound why a certain concept won’t work and just let them put their ideas into action as long is this will not cause any harm.
The sad part is that people are no longer mindful of people’s age hence the respect is somehow lost in a sense, that is why it is really vital to practice this one at home especially to the younger ones. There are a lot of reasons why these things happen; some it includes the idea that a certain person doesn’t have any good thing to say so people end up not listening to their ideas. Those people have their entire lifetime to experience this one but it would be best if respect is practiced within your family after all parents are the children’s first teachers.
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